Firepit Fellowship

Fully alive.
Thoroughly equipped.
Formed together.

Men weren't made to do life alone. Around a fire, on the trail, and out in the field, ordinary men become real friends, grow deeper in faith, and learn to lead with courage at home, at work, and in the world.

How It Works

Fire. Trail. Field.

A simple rhythm that invites every man into the whole life of following Jesus, together.

Weekly

The Fire

A small circle of men around a backyard fire. Real friendship, honest conversation, Scripture and great books, and prayer for one another. Open-fire nights welcome newcomers to pull up a chair.

Seasonal

The Trail

Adventures and retreats that stretch men together: backpacking, paddling, serving side by side, and quiet days for listening to God. Shared hard things build an unbreakable bond.

Daily

The Field

Where men live, work, and play. Know your field, sow faithfully in it, and in time plant another man, until one fire lights the next.

Out from the fire, onto the trail, into the field, and back to the fire with stories to tell.

A fire burning in a fire bowl at dusk Four men resting on a rocky summit overlooking a valley A group of men hiking along a grassy ridge Kayaking on a lake at sunset
The Problem

Most men are carrying life alone.

The forming places are gone: the elders, the fathers, the circles where men were shaped into men. What's left is a lot of pressure and very few people to share it with.

Pulled in every direction

Work, family, money, screens, and the news cycle compete for every hour. There's little left for friendship, faith, or the people who matter most.

Alone in the hard stuff

Many men have plenty of acquaintances and no one who knows what's really going on: in their marriage, with their kids, in their doubts.

Unsure what a man is for

Without a guiding light, manhood drifts toward absent or angry. Men want to lead well, but no one is showing them how.

"It is not good that the man should be alone."GENESIS 2:18

What Shapes Us

Our Values

These aren't aspirations. They describe what already happens around the fire.

God is the Fire

We don't light the fire. We gather near the One who does, and we depend on his Spirit, not ourselves.

Hebrews 12:29

Walk in the Light

We tell the truth about our lives. What's said at the fire stays at the fire. No posturing, just honest brotherhood.

1 John 1:7

Doers, Not Just Hearers

Every conversation lands on Tuesday: what will you do differently this week at home, at work, in your world?

James 1:22

Forged in Hard Things

Iron sharpens iron. We lean into hard conversations and hard trails, and we stay with a brother when life gets heavy.

Proverbs 27:17
Start Here

Pull Up a Chair

You don't need a program, a building, or a title. Here's how to experience it for yourself.

Gather Round

Reach out and learn how Firepit Fellowship works. Then find a few guys who want more than small talk.

Gear Up

Get the Starter Kit and trail guides, or talk with Keith about launching a fire with your men or your church.

Grow Together

Real friendship, deeper faith, and the courage to lead at home, at work, and in the world, side by side with brothers.

There's a chair by the fire for you.

Whether you're looking for a group, want to start one, or lead men in your church, let's talk about what a fire could look like in your world.

Prefer email? keith@realizemore.co

Firepit Fellowship is led by Keith Hileman, executive coach and consultant. Learn more about Keith at RealizeMore.co